北京英语脱产学习

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Are you a good conversationalist? What makes someone a good

conversationalist? Being a good conversationalist is important in

every context, be it in business, social, or dating.

你是不是一名好的健谈者？什么能让你变得健谈呢？无论在何种情况下，作

为一名好的健谈者都是非常重要的，无论是商业、还是社交或是约会。

I don't think there are any "tricks" or shady techniques you have

to apply to be a great conversationalist. Below are ten timeless

rules I apply to all my conversations:

我认为要想成为好的健谈者，不需要任何的“招数”或不正当的手法。下面

是我用到谈话中永不过时的10条原则：

1. Be genuinely interested in the person.对谈话的人真正感兴趣。

Who is this person? What's on his/her mind? What does he/she enjoy

doing? What motivates him/her in life? These are the questions I

have for every single person I meet. Since people form the core of

my life purpose (to help others grow),my genuine interest in

people, from who they are to what they do, comes naturally.

这个人是谁？他/她在想什么？他/她喜欢做什么？什么激励着他/她的生活？

我每遇见一个人，我都会想这样的问题。由于人们形成了我生活目标的核心(

帮助他人成长)， 我对他人的兴趣，从他们是谁到他们做什么，就很自然地

产生了。

Such genuine interest, not an artificial one, is essential to

making a conversation fly. If you are not interested in the other

person, then why speak to him/her to begin with? Move on to someone

you really want to talk to. Life is too short to be spent doing

things you don't like.

这样的兴趣是发自内心的，而不是虚假的， 这是让谈话出彩的必要条件。如

果你对他人不敢兴趣，为什么要和他/她说话呢？去和你真正想谈话的人说话

。生活苦短，不要把它浪费在你不喜欢的事情上。

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